December 06, 2005

do I need an attitude adjustment?

Guess where I get to go next week? I’ll give you a hint. It is a direct result of this incident. Unless you’ve never read me before, you’ve probably guessed Sensitivity Class. You would be correct! I get a two-day two-night expense paid trip to the suburbs of Chicago to learn to be “nicer”. This is the fourth time in the last 6 years I’ve been sent. I don’t think it helped when they told me, I responded with, “Yea, I’m sure it’ll take this time.” Some people just do NOT appreciate sarcasm.

Then to make matters worse, we had a big staff meeting this morning and we were going over our “days out of the office” this month. This is just so that we know when someone has either off-site meetings, vacation time or training. When it was my turn, I couldn’t help myself. Neither tact nor shame has been a strong point of mine. I just spouted off, “I have this Friday off, next Tuesday and Wednesday I’m being sent to Sensitivity Class, oh and there is a chance I may get some more spontaneous days off, it appears none of us learned from my last outburst.”

Yes, they pulled me into an office and addressed my attitude with me. First, Sensitivity Class is a private matter between upper management and I. Second, I’m pushing the line of being disrespectful. Third, I cannot plan an “outburst” just to get days off.

Yea, Yea, Yea… says you. I kept my mouth shut…. This time…. For once. I did point out that since I was the one that brought up sensitivity class, they didn’t violate corporate policy. That policy is there to protect the person being sent, not the company. With which they agreed. My brain wanted to go off and “educate” them that I will show proper respect when they deserve it and if you didn’t want me to use this little vacation time loophole, you shouldn’t have shown it to me. I was thinking of trying to get another Friday off to help someone move.

When I returned to work yesterday, it’s shared with me that they promoted someone whom should not have been. At this point, I will digress about this topic due to the fact that some of my minions read this blog and I don’t need them seeing my true feelings on the subject.

God, that speaks volumes doesn’t it?

Posted by Contagion in Tales from the Work Place at December 6, 2005 12:45 PM | TrackBack
Comments

Huh. I guess "your people" wouldn't have liked my answer -- "You know, you can't PLAN spontaneous outbursts -- that's why they're CALLED spontaneous..."

Posted by: Ogre at December 6, 2005 10:58 AM

I don't think your attitude needs any adjusting, it's fine just the way it is.

Posted by: Machelle at December 6, 2005 01:17 PM

Arghh. Since when is it insensitive to call an idiot an idiot? Just saying . . .

Posted by: oddybobo at December 6, 2005 01:59 PM

I'm with Machelle. I just plain don't see how you can get any nicer.

You little fuzzy bunny, you :-)

Posted by: Harvey at December 6, 2005 05:38 PM

Looks like somebody needs a hug.

I'm thinking you should wear all pink and speak with a lisp the entire time you're in there. I also recommend you don't take advice from me as I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.

Posted by: phin at December 7, 2005 07:55 AM

That means we can meet for dinner! Woot! Let me know the dates.

Posted by: Omnibus Driver at December 7, 2005 10:06 AM